I don’t know why all the dream of being the “perfect” size 4. Who set that standard anyway? The notion that clothes look better on thin people is absurd, let alone damaging the self-esteem of women on the heavier side of the scale. Big or small, every woman is beautiful, and if you don’t believe that, it’s maybe because you’re a smug man, or you’re just naturally a grouch.
No matter how much diet you do, and how often you go to the salon, nothing can affect the fact that when you are beautiful inside, it shines through. Now that’s what matters.